tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12347622451437710862024-03-13T03:03:23.042-07:00The Wife at HomeThe Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.comBlogger222125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-80812281352608782402010-01-05T20:15:00.000-08:002010-01-05T20:15:56.124-08:00A Time and A PlaceI don't talk in church anymore.<br />
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For the record when I refer to "<i>talking in church</i>", it is exclusive to theological discussions during church service or Sunday school.<br />
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Lately, I've begun noticing that my attention was being drawn away during service. Just little whispers or giggles made by fellow church members. I would look in their direction briefly, only to return my attention to the pastor realizing that I had missed what he had said. <br />
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I too, have been guilty of whispering to my daughter and husband during service. I realized how much of a distraction I must have been to others. When we are distracted we miss things.<br />
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Have you ever noticed that women, generally speaking, use more words then a man, to convey the same idea?<br />
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<i><b>This is the exception not the rule...but generally speaking</b></i>, we'd all have to agree that even in today's sitcoms, we see the exasperated looks of husbands toward wives when the wife gets to making a long winded point.<br />
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By no means am I saying that we ought to consider this just because it is the idea that has been perpertrated upon us in main stream media. Much rather we should take heed lest we stumble head first into to disobedience. Even the scriptures give us instructions on where it is appropriate to speak. (I Corinthians 14:34 KJV)<br />
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I listen to women <i>in church</i> who correct, debate and ultimately usurp the leadership of not only their own husbands, but also proceed to impose their theological prowess upon any other men in the discussion. Teaching a man is considered <b><i>shameful</i></b> and is clearly scripturally forbidden. (1 Tm 2:11-12 KJV and 1 Corinthians 14:35 KJV)<br />
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I personally have a natural tendency to talk. I consider myself well versed in scripture, literature and a variety of other topics. I am an avid reader and life long learner, however I want to use that knowledge at time when it is appropriate and edifying to the hearer.<br />
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<i><b>Why is this important?</b></i><br />
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Words are so powerful. (Proverbs 18:21 KJV) For that reason, I have chosen to be very careful about how and when I use them. (Proverbs 17:27 KJV)<br />
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Do you want to read more good stuff like this? My good friend Mrs. Parunak wrote an interesting posts called "<i>A Parable About Serving God in the Church</i>" here's an excerpt;<br />
<blockquote><div style="text-align: left;">God told men to be leaders in the Church and gave them shepherding and preaching roles. He gave women a lot to do as well. In 1 Timothy, in a discussion of the kind of widows the Church should care for, we get a picture of the life a godly woman should live.<br />
</div><blockquote><div style="text-align: left;">…having been the wife of one man, Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints’ feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work. –1 Timothy 5:9-10<br />
</div></blockquote><div style="text-align: left;">We can find another assignment for women in Titus 2:3-5, where they’re commanded to teach younger women<br />
</div></blockquote><blockquote><blockquote><div style="text-align: left;">…to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, <i>To be</i> discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.<br />
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Grace and peace be unto you from our Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ.<br />
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I received a letter recently from brother Paul. It was originally addressed to the church of Corinth yet it has managed to make it's way through time and space into my hands.<br />
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In the 11th chapter and the 1st verse brother Paul began by telling me to follow him as he follow Christ, and I was overjoyed to hear that brother Paul was continuing steadfast in the Lord. I had read countless letters of his trials and triumphs in his writings to the Romans, the Galatians, the Ephesians, the Phillipians, the Colossians and the Thesselonians. I have read of his love for Our Lord and Savior and his diligence in spreading the gospel.<br />
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In Pauls letter he talked about a very specific way in shich I could demostrate honor to God and my huband by doing one simple thing. He admonoshed me to hold fast to the teacheings given to him by Christ in that a women must choose to wear a head covering as an outward demonstration of her inward commitment to accept of the order, headship, and the authority of God.<br />
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I admit that I stopped several times and reread Pauls letter to be sure of what I was reading. I analyzed his words over the last few months to dicern whether this was a matter of a message specifcally for the Corinthian women or for all women. I also needed to be clear on what Paul meant by headcovering. Some studies stated simply long hair while other argued a literal shawl or scarf for the head.<br />
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With much dilligent study and prayer for discernment, I have concluded that Paul meant that I should wear a physical scarf or shawl for my head as a symbol of my agreement with Gods given order and "chain of command. I have been covering my head for three month now and have become very comfortable.<br />
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If this is something that you are struggling with continue in prayer asking God for guidance.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-59241965222232384062009-12-22T17:59:00.000-08:002009-12-22T17:59:53.744-08:00I am a wife and mother...now what?<div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div>I am blessed to have discovered God's plan for my life early on. Since I was a child I have always desired to be a wife and a mother. These descriptions don't fully characterize all of who I am but they can give you a general idea of what I was predestined to do in life.<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">What does it mean to be wife and mother based upon the Bible?</span><br />
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We are called to help our husbands (Gen 2:18) and our children (Titus 2:3-5; Deuteronomy 11:18-21; Proverbs 22:6 ) to fulfill the vision that God has for them and our family.<br />
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As a wife we are called by God to love, respect, and be faithful to our husbands (Ephesians 5:22,23; Titus 2:4,5).<br />
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As a wife and mother we are to model of godliness and do our best to meet the family’s needs (Titus 2:4,5; 1 Timothy 5:14; Proverbs 31:10-31).<br />
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We are to model purity in our dress, speech and behavior. We are to strive to possess a gentle and quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:1-7).<br />
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We are commanded to manage her homes (Proverbs 31:27; Titus 2:5). We should also strive to cultivate a joy of doing so, by visiting websites of other homemakers and growing from the experiences that they share.<br />
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We should do our best to speak with wisdom, and demonstrate prudence (Proverbs 12:4; 31:26,27).<br />
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This is not an all encompassing list of what it means to be a wife and mother. There are many more biblical commandments and principles available throughout scripture to help us to familiarize ourselves with God's idea of a wife and mother.<br />
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All of the answers can be obtained through communication with <span style="font-style: italic;">your own husband</span>, prayer and reading of the Bible.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-44399644629602457902009-12-16T04:13:00.001-08:002009-12-16T04:13:53.319-08:00My Mission Field<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQfyOc05NAnXQV1XjOo7BUmbviHMcmsHfEqMQh02TdparZ6HwmtfPMbkknOK_vgpFhENaoleK0X0MHn2D6q0ZYfD23bFezyEHCyBcEmF37S-GnXqdGCbOZaw4lJObWLkYEZ1W0l425ZlU/s1600/Old+School+Room+1864.htm" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQfyOc05NAnXQV1XjOo7BUmbviHMcmsHfEqMQh02TdparZ6HwmtfPMbkknOK_vgpFhENaoleK0X0MHn2D6q0ZYfD23bFezyEHCyBcEmF37S-GnXqdGCbOZaw4lJObWLkYEZ1W0l425ZlU/s320/Old+School+Room+1864.htm" /></a><br />
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People often suggest that I become a teacher as a result of either watching me educate my children or hearing me talk of our experiences.<br />
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I am flattered by their vote of confidence since teaching would have been my first career choice, had I not subscribed to spending my life as a wife and mother.<br />
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When people suggest that I become a teacher, I reply "<b><i>I am a teacher</i></b>".<br />
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I understand what they are implying when they use the word "teacher". They are suggesting that I obtain a degree from an accrediated college or university that would allow me to teach in a state run educational facility.<br />
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The thought has crossed my mind on several occasions, that maybe my talents would be better utilized teaching more than just <i>my own children</i>.<br />
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That would be true if my sole mission were to educate their minds. The intellectual educating of my children is secondary to teaching them the wisdom of God.<br />
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By starting our days with Bible reading and prayer, I am teaching them our relationship with Christ is not only a priority, but our most important relationship.<br />
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<i>I could never teach that in a state run school.</i><br />
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If any of the members of our family have an internal disagreement or a family crisis within or outside of our family unit, we first encourage one another using scripture. Secondly, we endeavor to help each other get through personal struggles by listening, guiding and steering each other back to God's word. We are teach our children how to cultivate peace, patience and dependency upon God. (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%206:20-23&version=KJV">Proverbs 6:20-23</a>)<br />
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<i>I could never teach that in a state run school.</i><br />
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My daughters and sons are learning the importance of modesty in their speech, dress and actions. They are learning the importance of being humble rather than ostentatious. (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%2014:7-11&version=KJV">Luke 14:7-11</a>)<br />
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My daughters are learning to be women, wives and mothers. (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Titus%202:3-5&version=KJV">Titus 2:3-5</a> & <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=prov%2031:10-31&version=KJV">Proverbs 31:10-31</a>) My sons are learning to be men, husbands and fathers. (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Titus%201:6-8&version=KJV">Titus 1:6-8</a> & <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=prov%2031:1-9&version=KJV">Proverbs 31:1-9</a>) They are learning that differences between the responsibilities of a man and a women. They are accepting the responsibilities of their roles and learning to refine their skills as they mature.<br />
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This is my mission field. These are my students. I am their teacher. (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+11:18-20&version=KJV">Deuteronomy 11:18-20</a>) I love what I do and I would not have it any other way. Teaching my children how to live lives that mirror the word of God, is my career. It is what I was made to do. <br />
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</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;">Teacher's deask in an old school room on the grounds of Henderson Hall just south of Williamstown, WV</span><br />
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Do I love other children? Yes. I love children, which is why my volunteer to work is with children. However, for this season of my life, I am called to the mission field of motherhood.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-19851070857376394642009-11-30T12:39:00.000-08:002009-11-30T12:39:41.852-08:00She Rises While it is Yet Night...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAznpMm5ViocvTUNulmxWkSprRfmrAMyWdFc42BFfCSGTUwhB56Mm3B8I402IaM8gCj9Jadhs3lLGHU7xBIRJxbvKVUJC_CJRZlrFXsVeRbKawhO28wVcKHyBMdebDu_62al_qDHkMZBk/s1600/sleeping+women.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAznpMm5ViocvTUNulmxWkSprRfmrAMyWdFc42BFfCSGTUwhB56Mm3B8I402IaM8gCj9Jadhs3lLGHU7xBIRJxbvKVUJC_CJRZlrFXsVeRbKawhO28wVcKHyBMdebDu_62al_qDHkMZBk/s320/sleeping+women.jpg" /></a><br />
</div>1. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Time to Pursue God</span>: I get to spend quiet quality time alone with the Lord. I use this time to pray, read my bible, talk to the Lord and receive instruction and encouragement. After taking this time alone I feel calm and ready for the day.<br />
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2. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Begin Dinner Prep</span>: Getting a jump start on preparing for dinner makes dinner time so much more manageable when 5'oclock rolls around. I choose at least one thing that can be done from my dinner to-do's. If dry beans are on the menu, I let them soak overnight. This way all I do is drain off the water and pop them in the crock pot in the morning. I also defrost meat in the freezer overnight and season it in the morning. Making a habit of doing at least one thing in advance makes life easier at dinnertime.<br />
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3. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Quiet Time to Plan your Day</span>: Planning my day give me direction and a measurable set of goals. Having a plan allows me to manage my home and care for it effectively. I use this time to schedule not only my responsibilities, but to also organize skill building chores for my children.<br />
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4. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Get Started on <a href="http://proverbswife.blogspot.com/2007/11/homemaking-101.html">Home Keeping Tasks</a></span>: I like to begin homemaking tasks early in the day, rather than cleaning in the evening when I could be resting and relaxing with my family. My husband once told me that as a stay at home wife, I was my own boss. He also said that if I am still working in the evening when the rest of the family is relaxing then I need to fire myself. Planning my day, getting started early and setting a quitting time helps me to keep a cheerful disposition.<br />
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5. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Make Breakfast for my Family</span>: When my children were younger I made their entire breakfast for them daily. Now that they are getting older, they each take part in preparing our breakfast meals. I am training them to manage the kitchen by guiding them and and instructing them on how to work together. Our children will remember the things that we do for them and with them. Meal preparation is a very important bonding time for our family. <br />
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6. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Personal Grooming Time for Myself</span>: This is one of the tasks that is beneficial to myself and my husband. Taking the time to <a href="http://proverbswife.blogspot.com/2007/11/beauty-101.html">get dressed</a>, style my hair and <a href="http://proverbswife.blogspot.com/2008/02/i-like-what-i-see.html">put on makeup</a> really makes my husband feel special. When I initially made a commitment to get dressed each day-- as if I were going to be leaving the house, my family would look at me strangely. They'd ask "Mommy are you going somewhere?".<br />
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They had gotten so accustomed to me wearing PJ's or sweatpants and uncombed hair that they were puzzled by the change. After some time, not only did they respond well to this change in my morning routine, but I began to feel better about myself. I would smile throughout the day when I would catch glimpses of myself in the mirror throughout the house. <br />
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These are just a few beneficial reasons for getting up a little earlier than the rest of the family.<br />
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<i><b>Do you have a morning routine and what time does your day start? I'd love to hear what works at your house.</b></i>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-62418731309458481722009-11-24T12:44:00.000-08:002009-11-24T12:45:21.048-08:00Pre-Thanksgiving CookingSweet Potatoes were .25¢ a pound are Walmart and Aldi, which is a fabulous price. It's the lowest price you'll find all year in my area. I bought about 30 or so pounds which will be cooked up and frozen to use throughout 2010.<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">In an effort to prevent feeling overwhelmed on Thanksgiving I pre-prep some of my dishes in advance. I know from experience that their is no obvious difference in taste if the sweet potato pie filling is made on Thanksgiving or a few days before. I did not have to cook dinner yesterday since we had leftover lasagna in the fridge, so I used this time to work on sweet potato's.<br />
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I was offered the opportunity to write about <a href="http://socialspark.com/metrics/click/post?slot_id=92722&url=http%3A%2F%2Furlbrief.com%2F2a3201" rel="nofollow">Talbots</a> clothing line and I must say that I have been exposed to a line that I had not been familiar with. Talbots challenged me to share with my readers what I would buy with a $500 Talbots gift card.<br />
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The thing I enjoy most about reviewing companies is that I get to learn about product I would not have most likely found on my own. I had heard of Talbot before, but never considered it as a store that would suit my needs. I do not know where I acquired this notion, but when I visited the site I knew immediately that Talbot's was the store for me.<br />
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If you are looking to dress modestly and have been having a hard time locating fashionable skirts and dresses that would sit below the knee or longer Talbots may be the place to look.<br />
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I will be the first to say that Talbots is not inexpensive, by any stretch of the imagination. Their skirts range $34.99 - $189 each, however I am a firm believer in the saying " you get what you pay for". I don't shop often, but when I do I like to invest in quality pieces that will last a long time when properly cared for.<br />
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If I had a $500 Talbots gift card I would buy several foundation pieces upon which to build a stylish, classic, modest wardrobe.<br />
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</div><div style="text-align: left;">I went a little bit over $500 by $36, but as you can see Talbots has some really fashionable long skirts. I spent about three hours just last week searching the web for knee length or longer skirts only to log off frustrated. Most of the sites were families, mostly Amish, who were selling hand made dresses with styles more closely related to the styles found on the show Little House on the Prairie. I want to dress modestly, but I don't want to sacrifice fashion. Talbots is just the resource to meet my needs. <br />
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You know the story right? Mary and Martha have Jesus into their home. Martha fusses around making food and cleaning while Mary sits with the guests. Pretty soon Martha is upset with Mary and tells Jesus to tell Mary she had better get up and help.<br />
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How surprised was Martha when Jesus told her that Mary had chosen what was right.<br />
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In an effort to plan and host the perfect gathering this year, keep in mind what's improtant this holiday season. I will be sharing my home and food with my guests this season, but more importnatly I will remember to share my time.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-68699776858955790262009-11-18T11:23:00.000-08:002009-11-18T11:33:12.204-08:00Unwanted Holiday Guest<span style="font-size: small;"><i>This is a Sponsored Post written by me on behalf of <a href="http://socialspark.com/metrics/click/disclosure?slot_id=97212&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.victorpest.com%2Fadvice%2Fall-about%2Fvictor-repellents" rel="nofollow">Victor® Rodent Control</a>. All opinions are 100% mine.</i></span><br />
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As we prepare their homes for the holidays, we want to be sure to make presentable the things that our guest sees and perhaps the things they do not see. Some of us may have family coming in town to stay between now and Christmas, and if you have a bug or rodent problem, there is no better time than now to address the issue.<br />
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I do not have a rodent problem, but I can remember growing up in NYC and rodents being a part of everyday life. The purchase of snap traps, glue traps, mouse bait and pellets were a regular part of my family’s household maintenance expenses.<br />
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Just a week ago, I advised a friend on how to get rid of an annoying rodent he had at his place. I gave him some De-con which he place inside of a piece of bread rolled into a ball. He set the ball out before bed, hoping to rid himself of the problem. He awoke only to find the bread gone and the pellets sitting on the counter top. <br />
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After calling me back to say that the plan did not work, I advised him to crush the pellets into a fine powder and to mix them into to bread. He set the bait out again and headed off to bed. He awoke to find a dead rat a few feet from where he had set the bait.<br />
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Whether you have a bug or rodent problem this is the time to get a handle on it. The bad part about using a poisonous product like De-con is that it is not safe around pets and children. The other drawback is that you will need to dispose of the rodent carcass if it dies before making it out of your house. <br />
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I had never heard of ultrasonic rodent repellents before and came across a demo that explained <a href="http://socialspark.com/metrics/click/post?slot_id=97212&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.victorpest.com%2Fadvice%2Fall-about%2Fvictor-repellents%2Ftypes-of-repellents" rel="nofollow">how ultrasonic repellents work</a>. The makers of Victor Pest products claim that the repellents emit high frequency sound waves designed to repel rodents from entering your home. The website a variety of repellent coverage ranges based upon the size of your home. <br />
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The main reason for rodent problems is due to homes that offer them food and shelter. Some tips on how to <a href="http://socialspark.com/metrics/click/post?slot_id=97212&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.victorpest.com%2Fadvice%2Ftips-and-strategies%2Frodent-proof-your-home" rel="nofollow">rodent proof your home</a> found at Victorpest.com are…<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">"Whoso findeth a wife findeth <span style="font-weight: bold;">a good thing</span> and obtaineth favour of the Lord.</span> "<br />
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</div>We, at times forget how much our husbands need us. Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in our children, our home, our blogs and life in general that we forget to get around to being his<span style="font-style: italic;"> "help meet"</span>.<br />
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<span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">We often have good intentions when we fill our days with this and that</span><span style="font-style: italic;">.</span> We may even believe that if our calendars are filled with activities and our to-do lists are a mile long that we are being good wives.<br />
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However, it is just the opposite. <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">A good wife is sensitive to her husbands needs above everyone else's.</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>She is concerned even to the point of clearing her schedule when he needs her, if possible. She purposely schedules time in her day for her husband.<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">She does not put her children’s desires, requests or agenda before her husbands.</span> </span>Fear not ladies, your children will no that they are loved and cared for even if they don’t receive 100% of your energy and attention. <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">A godly husband will never put himself before his children. </span><br />
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When we place our husbands as a major priority in our lives we are teaching our children biblical family order. <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">A good wife seeks to please her husband and adhere to her husbands wishes above all other earthly beings</span>.(Ephesians 5:22-24)<br />
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One of the major drawbacks of neglecting to make our husbands a priority, is withdrawal. How many times have we all mis-prioritized and found that our husbands had withdrawn from us? <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">They sought us but we were too busy</span>. (Song of Solomon 5:2-6) They needed us, yet we were not there.<br />
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Because they are so strong, we forget how much my husbands need us. Because they rarely, if ever cry, we forget that they are vulnerable.<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">In an effort to be that “good thing’’ referred to in Proverbs 18:22; let us make a conscience effort to make our spouses a priority this week. </span><br />
</div>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-76604162433910468582009-10-16T11:50:00.000-07:002009-10-16T13:00:07.940-07:00My Marriage, My Idol<span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">To my dearly beloved fellow sisters in Christ,</span><br /><br />One of the biggest strains that I have ever placed on my marriage was the unspoken demand for my husband to be my Lord and savior. It wasn't something that I verbalized, but it was an unattainable, internal standard that I had set for him.<br /><br />I expected my husband to be perfect and without fault. With this expectation came disappointment and bitterness. When the Bible alluded to the husband being "like Christ" in regards to his relationship to his wife, I took this to mean perfect.<br /><br />I expected the <span style="font-weight: bold;">PERFECT CHRISTIAN HUSBAND<span style="font-style: italic;"></span></span>.<br /><br />I charged him with filling the needs and completing tasks that only the Lord could. I expected my husband to know how I was feeling even when I was to hurt and stubborn to verbalize.<br /><br />I expected him to know what to do to make me happy. I wanted him to meet all of my needs. I demanded that he figure out what it required to make me feel secure.<br /><br />This kind of thinking began to take a severe toll on the strength of my marriage. It was not until I realized that I had set up an idol. This idol was a detailed mental list of the type of husband God wanted for me. This list transformed from the type of husband God wanted for me into the type of husband I demanded that I have.<br /><br />I had built an image of my husband, based upon every righteous aspect of the scripture, and then turned it into an idol of worship. If ever my husband did not meet the standards I had formulated, I would become frustrated, resentful and bitter. This showed up in my speech, behavior and attitude.<br /><br />It wasn't until God began to show me how far away I was from being a Proverbs 31 or Titus 2 mentor that I finally humbled myself.<br /><br />It amazes me how easily something good can turn bad when we get our hands on it. Needless to say, that I stopped demanding that my husband be perfect and begun the work of allowing God to perfect me. Not only have I grown in the process, but God has molded my husband into the perfect man for me.<br /><br />I no longer worship who he could be, but I accept and encourage my husband for who he his and where he is. I let God's grace handle the rest.<br /><br />If you have a husband that you believe is coming up short, be prayerful, focus on the Lord and encourage your husband often. Ask God to help you focus on your husbands goodness. Allow God to use you to be the helpmeet he needs to become the man God predestined him to be.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">May the Lord greatly bless you with the reading of these words.</span>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-70023940684605060702009-09-28T09:25:00.000-07:002009-09-28T09:25:00.601-07:00FOCUS ON THE CROSSEverything that you are going through right now is bringing you closer to the foot of the cross.<br /><br /><blockquote>Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you: I Peter 4:12</blockquote><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center; font-weight: bold;">Christ is not dead!<br /></div><br />He hears your prayers...<br /><br />He sees your tears...<br /><br />He knows your pain...<br /><br />He understands your struggle...<br /><br /><blockquote>Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10</blockquote><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center; font-weight: bold;">HE IS YOUR ANSWER!<br /></div><br />Take your eyes off of your problems and <span style="font-style: italic;">Focus On The Cross</span>. Be encouraged as you go about your week. God cares for the things that concern you. <a href="http://bible.cc/psalms/138-8.htm"><span style="font-style: italic;">Psalm 138:8</span></a>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-3047542952389865252009-09-01T07:27:00.000-07:002009-09-01T08:50:18.866-07:00A Time to PrayLuke 18:1 "And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">men ought always to pray</span>, and not to faint;"<br /><br />Luke 21:36 "Watch ye therefore, <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">and pray always</span>, that ye may be accounted worthy to escape all these things that shall come to pass, and to stand before the Son of man.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">I have found that key to dealing with difficulties within the home is through continual prayer. Whether it be the immaturity of our children that can sometimes frustrate us or the challenges of marriage, we should always utilize the gift of prayer in order to see the situation from the correct perspective.</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"></span><br />Romans 1:9 "For God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit in the gospel of his Son, that <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">without ceasing I make mention of you always in my prayers</span>"<br /><br />Ephesians 6:18 "<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Praying always with all prayer</span> and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints..."<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">Praying is something that can and should be practiced at all times. It may seem a daunting task but, contrary to popular belief, is very easy to accomplish.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"></span>Philippians 1:4 "<span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">Always in every prayer</span> of mine for you all making request with joy..."<br /><br /><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Colossians</span> 1:3 "We give thanks to God and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">praying always</span> for you..."<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">I learned a little trick that helps me to pray at all times. While folding my families clothes, I will pray for each family member as I come to their article of clothing. I say just a short sentence or two regarding their needs, struggles or anything the Holy Spirit leads me to pray.</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"></span><br /><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Colossians</span> 4:12 "<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Epaphras</span>, who is one of you, a servant of Christ, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">saluteth</span> you, <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">always labouring fervently for you in prayers</span>, that ye may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God."<br /><br />1 Thessalonians 1:2 "We give thanks to God always for you all, <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">making mention of you in our prayers</span>..."<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">I do the same thing while reviewing my daily to do list. As I assign and review each of their daily tasks I say a quick pray concerning each family member. </span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"></span><br />2 Thessalonians 1:11 "Wherefore also <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">we pray always </span>for you, that our God would count you worthy of this calling, and fulfill all the good pleasure of his goodness, and the work of faith with power..."<br /><br />Philemon 1:4 "I thank my God, <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">making mention of thee always in my prayers</span>..."<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">This can also be carried out while making plates for meals or while dressing a child or fixing their hair. You can pray for them while you are tidying their room or returning one of their books or toys to it's proper place.</span><br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">If you are seeking more time to pray for your family begin to look for all of the opportunities that are available and take advantage of them.<br /></div>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-52107331151289749672009-08-25T18:12:00.000-07:002009-08-25T19:07:20.471-07:00With Your Whole HeartI am often amazed and yet saddened by some of the comments I hear so called believers make. I do not intend to stand in judgment of <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">any ones</span> walk of faith. We all must "work out our on salvation with fear and trembling". Each of us must determine what we will believe and in who we will place our trust.<br /><br />The question of whether or not we believed that we <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">trusted God with our whole heart </span>was presented myself and a group of believers. Out of the group of 20 or so I was the only one to eagerly answer "<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">I do</span>!"<br /><br />It felt awkward to look around and see my classmates ponder the question as if they had only considered the question for the first time at that very moment.<br /><br />It had seemed all to obvious an answer to me...but what if it weren't obvious?<br /><br />How do you know if you trust God with your whole heart?<br /><br />Trusting God means relying on His integrity, strength, ability, commandments and promises.<br /><br />When things go right in your life do you give God the praise?<br /><br />When things go wrong in your life do you seek Gods direction?<br /><br />Before you make decisions do you commune with the Lord?<br /><br />Are you focused on pleasing God above all else?<br /><br />All of these and many more are indications of a person who trusts God with their whole heart. Trusting the Lord with your whole heart is not determined by finding the difference between the number of times that you have listened to the Lord and the number of times that you didn't.<br /><br />Trusting the Lord with your whole heart is making a decision to follow the Lord no matter what.<br /><br />While you are trusting the Lord you will still mess up and make wrong decisions. You will think you heard God say <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">do this </span>and you <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">did that</span>. Nevertheless, continue to trust Him. Be strong and courageous and TRUST HIM. Be bold in your faith. Stand fast upon his word and TRUST HIM.<br /><br />Be encouraged!The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-42721648696085224762009-08-24T17:58:00.000-07:002009-08-24T18:55:52.223-07:00Taking the LeapI am a huge fan of Blogger.com and many of the other free sites available. I have been using blogger for over two years now. However, I realize that in order for my two blogs to have the capability to offer my readers the functionality that I am looking for, I will need to switch to a website hosting company.<br /><br />Some hosting companies offer very basic services such as standard web hosting where you don't get any technical help, and others offer everything from web design to <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://webhostinggeeks.com/dedicatedserverhosting.html">dedicated server hosting</a>.<br /><br />I really do not know much about the html. and template codes so I will need a reliable host to be able to offer easy to use templates at a reasonable price. There are many site who offer referrals to some of the best web hosting services but I really like the functionality of <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://webhostinggeeks.com/">WebHostingGeeks.com</a><br /><br />The list that the site provides is very informative. Each of the listings include information such as the name of the host company, their ranking and pricing. I never expected for my blog to become a resource for information but now that it is I'd like to make sure that the information is stored somewhere other than blogger and my hard drive.<br /><br />Many of the pricing plans are very reasonable. Prices range from $1.99 up to $12.95 for web hosting. These are price ranges for hosts who were ranked in the top ten. I would like to merge this blog with A Proverbs Wife sometime down the line, but in order to do so I will need much more functionality that what is offered for FREE through blogger.<br /><br />I am prayerfully considering the direction that God wants to take both of my blogs and patiently waiting to see how it all come together in a final package.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-67643069245096871612009-08-22T13:38:00.000-07:002009-08-23T00:42:59.224-07:00The Christian Wife<span style="font-weight: bold;">She has a responsibility</span><span style="font-weight: bold;">...</span><br /><br />To Submit to Her Husbands Authority<br /><ul><li>Ephesians 5:22<br /></li><li>Colossians 3:18</li></ul>**This includes unsaved or unbelieving husbands<br /><ul><li>I Peter 3:1</li></ul>To love her husband<br /><ul><li>Titus 2:4</li></ul><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Submission</span> <span style="font-weight: bold;">is not...</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />...obedience like a child obeys a parent.</span><br /><br />I Peter 3:7~ Dwell with your wife with understanding, grant her <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">honor</span> as a fellow heir of the grace of Jesus Christ.<br /><br />The way that the husband treats the wife is how he treats himself, because they are one in the eyes of God through marriage.<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Gen 2:23-24</span><br /><br />...is not something to be feared.<br /><br />A man of God has a responsibility to love his wife the way that he loves himself which includes his actions toward her.<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Ephesians 5:28-29</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">...is not her losing her personality or uniqueness in place of her husbands.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Submission is...</span><br /><br />...supporting your husband by accepting his leadership.<br /><br />...seeking to listen to his direction concerning the family and direction for the family.<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I Peter 3:6</span><br /><br />...assisting him in carrying out the vision for the family.<br /><br />...becoming his "helpmeet". <span style="font-style: italic;">Genesis 2:18</span>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-14534036190945317612009-08-22T10:02:00.000-07:002009-08-23T00:43:20.625-07:00Condiment CouponThe next time I go shopping I am going to look for <a href="http://socialspark.com/metrics/click/post?slot_id=44624&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mizkan.com%2FScripts%2Fpageview.asp%3FidPage%3D2%26utm_source%3Dblog%26utm_medium%3Dsponspost%26utm_campaign%3Dsplash" rel="nofollow">NAKANO Seasoned Rice Vinegar</a> on the condiment isle.<br /><br />My family has recently become non-meat eaters and are slowly transitioning to removing animal based dairy products from our diets as well. As we do so, I found that we are eating more salads, grains and pastas. With the lack of meat I have had to become more creative in my seasoning techniques.<br /><br />I've recently purchased Terryaki and Tamari sauce to use in Asian recipes and was very pleased with the flavor. I am excited about trying NAKANO Seasoned Rice Vinegar on some salad recipes I have planned for the future.<br /><br />To learn more about the NAKANO brand of products visit their site. While you are there you can also sign up for the <a href="http://www.blogger.com/http://mizkan.cccpdc.com/Scripts/splash.asp/">Splash Recipe Club </a>after which you will receive a <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">FREE recipe booklet</span>, coupons and more. 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The coupon is good until 12/2009.<br /><map name="map3570"><area href="http://socialspark.com/metrics/click/disclosure?slot_id=44624&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mizkan.com%2FScripts%2Fpageview.asp%3FidPage%3D2%26utm_source%3Dblog%26utm_medium%3Dsponspost%26utm_campaign%3Dsplash" shape="rect" coords="0,0,206,45" rel="nofollow"><area href="http://socialspark.com/code_of_ethics" shape="rect" coords="207,0,225,45" rel="nofollow"></map><img alt="Post?slot_id=44624&url=http%3a%2f%2fsocialspark" src="http://socialspark.com/metrics/view/post?slot_id=44624&url=http%3A%2F%2Fsocialspark.com%2Fimages%2Fdisclosure_badges%2Fdisclosure_badge_grey.png" style="border: 0pt none ;" usemap="#map3570" border="0" />The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-31093803768449409422009-08-14T03:12:00.000-07:002009-08-14T08:24:26.657-07:00Return Unto the LordIn a misguided quest to be the perfect wife and mother, we have become blindsided to the true purpose of our calling. We are called to demonstrate a Christ-likeness in our behavior and speech.<br /><br />Our ability to be perfect is unrealistic and unobtainable.<br /><br />We cannot be perfect but we can be loving, kind, patient, faithful and obedient to God. What do people see in you?<br /><br />Do they see you as loving, honest, patient and forgiving person? Do they see fairness in your stern judgment?<br /><br />Perhaps they see hypocrisy and bitterness.<br /><br />Are we demostrating a true image of who Christ is? In order to be a true example of Christ we must have a true relationship with God. Our end goal cannot be worldly ideals of perfection.<br /><br />A true relationship begins with time spent daily in the presence of the Lord. Our relationship with God is unlike any other we will ever experience. We need to spend time with God to become better people. There is no other relationship that is able to refresh, strengthen, direct and encourage us like our relationship with God.<br /><br />We can seek these benefits in our relationships with our spouses, or in the hours on the phone with our friends. We can imagine that we have grasped those benefits of time spent with God, in the time we spend staring into the eyes of our infant children. However, what we get from these experiences can never replace what we gain from time spent with God.<br /><br />What are we seeking when we spend time with HIM?<br /><br />1~Knowledge of who He is<br />2~Knowledge of who we are<br />3~Understanding of the purpose and plan for our life<br />4~A mirror in which to view our actions and thoughts<br />5~Direction for discipling our children<br /><br />I remember when I used to nag my husband about not reading any books other than the Bible. I would read Christian self help books, devotionals, study guides and commentaries. I would read novels, literature, historical fiction and non-fiction alike. I thought that due to his lack of literary knowledge that my husband would grow old and not know a thing about the world.<br /><br />But oh..that God was so mindful of me to bless me with such a wonderful and wise husband. I have come full circle only to learn that if there were only one book that I could have in the world, it would be my bible.<br /><br />The holy text holds the answers to everything that we need. Therefore we must spend daily quiet time in Gods word. We must carry on a continual conversation with God.<br /><br />It’s o.k. to talk to God while you do your homekeeping or while you are at work. We must store His word in our hearts by meditating on scripture. Finally, we must put away they busyness that keeps us from pursuing a relationship with God.<br /><br />If you were to ask my children what is the most important relationship in my life they will tell you that “nobody comes before God”. There should be nothing more important than your time with God. It has to be a priority. I could never be an example of Christ without spending time with God.<br /><br />No amount of time spent with God will make me a perfect Christian. What the time does do, is grants me to humbleness of mind to admit when I have sinned and fallen short of Gods glory. It reminds me that I am not my children’s Lord and savior. It reminds me that I am a joint heir to the throne of Christ with my children. It reminds me of my desperate need for a relationship with the Lord.<br /><br />Make a commitment today to renew your relationship with Christ. Take the steps needed to clear your plate and re-prioritize your focus. Desire not be perfect but to be HIS.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-20763954399214754652009-08-11T12:02:00.001-07:002009-08-11T12:42:34.568-07:00HOPE is in the LORDWhy art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance. Psalm 42:5<br /><br />Do you know that the joy of the Lord can be your strength? Do you not recognize the power that comes from unfettered obedience to God?<br /><br />He desires that we flourish, yet we sit trapped in the bondage of despair and depression. We fail to see the hope in dire situations because we have taken our eyes off of Him.<br /><br />What is it that sets us apart from the unbelievers, but our hope that the fact that God's words are true. Why do we give up when the storms of life come, Knowing that "If God be for me, who an be against me?"<br /><br />The storms are for your good. Do you not know that we ought to glory in our tribulations, knowing that tribulations bring about patience?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">So how then should we react during the storms?</span><br /><br />1~Stand firm on the word of the Lord knowing that everything that He has promised you shall come to pass. (Hebrews 10:23)<br /><br />2~Continue to surround ourselves with other strong believers that will encourage us to think and to do good during this time.<br />(Hebrews 10:24-25)<br /><br />3~Continue in prayer for strength and obedience during this storm.<br /><br />4~Maintain a joyful countenance and mind frame. (James 1:2)<br /><br /><br />Do not despair when troubles come. Don't believe that you are the only one going through what you're going through. Trust God and know that he has already worked the situation out for your good. Take your eyes off the circumstance and place it on the only true solution which is God.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-70319656671551671892009-08-06T16:16:00.000-07:002009-08-06T16:59:22.751-07:00Children...A Gift from the LordAs a mother I have a responsibility to teach my children to love the Lord with all of their heart, mind, body and soul. This love cannot be forced, but must be allowed be accepted willingly.<br /><br />God does not force himself upon us and has given us the free will to decide whom we will serve.<br /><br />In order for me to help my children choose wisely, I have to show them a true representation of who God is. There are a few things that we must remember when leading our children to the Lord.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">We cannot make them follow God with their hearts. </span>Just because our children follow our family rules whether they be our preferred way of doing things or our Biblical rules, we must endeavor that they learn to be obedient out of love.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">They must see that our relationship with God is a priority.</span><br />They must see that spending time with God is of the utmost importance to us. Our children should know that we pray for them and their father. They must know where mother gets her strength, hope, peace and joy. Teach them that your relationship with God comes first, then husband, children, home and then the church (friends). Teach them that when the relationship with God is balanced all the rest will balance out as well.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Teach them to overcome the sin in their lives.</span> Are we holy on Sunday and hellish Monday-Saturday? I am not referring to striving daily to grasp the patience to mother calmly and lovingly. What I am referring to is the evil that can fester in our hearts and minds. The thoughts of bitterness and anger towards our children can be seen in the way that we speak to them and interact with them.<br /><br />In order to overcome the challenges of parenting we must be an open book. This takes humility, prayer and repentance. Do not be afraid to share with your children how much you need their help. Tell them how much it helps you when they, for example...do their chores the first time they are asked.<br /><br />Let them know that you are working on the Fruit of the Spirit "patience". Tell them how they can help you. Ask them to pray that anger be taken far from you each morning. To hear a child pray for the salvation of mother is such a humbling sound. I have overheard my own children pray for me many times. I have been brought to tears over the sincerity of their desire that I be holy and acceptable in the sight of God.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">We cannot be hypocrites.</span> We cannot fool our children no matter how we try. They know who we are when we take off our public face. We cannot be a hypocrites, for if we do we will run the risk of misrepresenting God to our children. We must be the light of the world for our children. We must strive not to put on a show for friends, but should endeavor to be our best for our children. Let us restructure our loyalties. Let us concern ourselves more with the face that we put on for our children first and our face for other believers will follow suit. Let our behavior at home be that of which we profess to believe.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">No one of us will ever be perfect, but we can seek the will of God in our daily lives that He may perfect those things in us which are imperfect.</span><br /></div>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-67740624352748206392009-07-24T16:18:00.000-07:002009-07-24T18:08:10.063-07:00She Does Him Good...I have found that society has done no justice in teaching women how to properly care for her husband. Some of our mothers, grandmothers and aunts may have not done a superb job of it either. However, I'd like to try and shed a little light on the subject of caring for the delicate needs of our men.<br /><br />If your husband is anything like mine, he is a provider and protector. He the strong. He is courageous and he is always willing to shield his family from the storms of life.<br /><br />He is everything we want in a husband, but do you know what his vulnerability is?...<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">YOU!</span><br /></div><br />Our husbands are quite vulnerable to us as wives. We have the POWER to keep him or push him away. We have the POWER to build him up or tear him down.We can use that ability to make him better or to make him worse.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">The POWER of our words </span>can cause our husbands to want to cleave or to leave. If we are <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2019:13;&version=9;">the argumentative type</a> that always has to have our way, then you will <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%2021:9;&version=9;">surely drive him away</a>. He may not be gone today but with <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2027:15;&version=9;">each argument</a>, you will slowly wear away at the bond that holds you together.<br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Foolish Wife~</span> Proverbs 9:13 A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Wise Wife~</span> Proverbs 31: 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">The POWER of our behavior</span> can cause our husbands to trust or distrust us. Are we honest and upfront about what we spend out if the family budget? Are we honest about what we do with our time? Do we hide things from our husbands or lie to them? This includes what some call little lies like sneaking an ingredient into a meal that he said he does not like?<br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;">Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.</span><br /><br /> <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Titus%202:3;&version=9;">It does not matter if he knows or not</a>. When our children watch us do things that go against our husbands wishes we are teaching them that it's o.k. to disregard authority as long as you don't get caught. Dishonesty destroys bonds. How can you be made ruler over <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Titus%202:4-5;&version=9;">the greater tasks</a> when you cannot be faithful with the little tasks?<br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;">Proverbs 31:10-12 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. </span><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;">The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. </span><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;">She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Power of our appearance</span> can influence or husbands to be better men of God. Our husbands are very much influenced by our carnal; appearance but I want to bring to light a more eternal appearance. Let us put on the apparel of <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=i%20peter%203:5;&version=9;">obedience to our husbands</a>.<br /><br />We must choose to put this on each day. It is not a once and for all choice for most of us, but it is none the less...<span style="font-style: italic;">a choice</span>. It is one that is made out of love and a willingness to yield to the will of God. <span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br /><br />A husband can be encouraged in his personal walk with Christ to see his wife <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Colossians%203:12-13;&version=9;">put on the characteristics</a> of holiness, mercy, kindness, humility, meekness, patience and forgiveness in our interactions with him and your children.<br /><br />We all have areas where we are still learning and growing in Christ. Let us encourage one another towards excellence through the word of God.<br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ea0000;">Proverbs 24:3-4 Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: 4 And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches</span>.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-30455218407870792282009-07-21T04:02:00.000-07:002009-07-21T04:02:00.278-07:00What Do I Do Before the Storm?<span style="font-size:100%;">Facing the storms of life can be one of the hard, yet they have the potential to <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=romans%205:3-4;&version=9;">empower us</a>. In order for us to become successful at exiting the storms with our faith still intact, we must train during the times when we are experiencing peace in our lives. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Make it a habit to read the Bible daily.</span> <span style="font-size:100%;">Find</span> a time during the day or night that you can devote to reading a minimum of one chapter of the Bible each day. <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=hebrews%204:12;&version=9;">The word of God is a weapon</a> and not reading the Bible leaves you defenseless.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Meditate on Gods word daily </span><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span>through memorization of scripture. Choose verses of the Bible that encourage you and think on them daily. If you are bold enough <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy%206:9%20;&version=9;">write them</a> on your bathroom mirror and windows throughout your home. Use a dry erase marker which can easily be wiped clean. Imagine being able to <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/keyword/?search=meditate&searchtype=all&version1=9&spanbegin=1&spanend=73">meditate on His word</a> while you wash your face and brush your teeth. How much more peace would you have reading his word on the window above the kitchen sink? If you store His word in your heart during times of peace, they will be easier to recall during life's trials.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Learn how to pray with </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=James%205:15-18%20;&version=9;">power</a><span style="font-weight: bold;"> and </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=James%201:6-8%20;&version=9;">faith</a><span style="font-weight: bold;">. </span>To obtain prayer that brings about resolution you must have faith in God. Your faith must lie in the belief that God is able to do what He promises in His holy scripture. You must also pray <span style="font-style: italic;">the will of God</span> and not your own expectation. God will not operate outside of His will. In order to pray the will of God, you must have a relationship with God. This relationship is developed by reading the Bible, meditating on scripture, being obedient to the word and praying for an outcome that glorifies God. You must pray for Gods will <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=47&chapter=26&verse=42&version=9&context=verse">even when the outcome is one that you do not desire</a>.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Pray constantly and consistently.</span> Prayer is not just for bedtime. Satan is banking on you not praying. He is hoping that you look at prayer as a redundant chore rather than an ongoing conversation with God. Please do not be fooled. It is Gods desire that we communicate with Him <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Thessalonians%205:17-18;&version=9;">all of the time</a>.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">If you have been struggling in any of these areas pray and ask the Lord to remove those things that are drawing your attention away from Him. Make your desire to rekindle the relationship known to Him. God loves you and is waiting for you to come back to Him.</span>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-67859420513626470752009-07-20T02:29:00.000-07:002009-07-20T09:46:55.466-07:00Your Labor is not in VainI sometimes find myself cringing at that messages that I believe God sometimes asks me to convey. For one I, like most people, on some level fear rejection and persecution. However, the fear does not run deep enough for me to refuse to be God's messenger.<br /><br />Not only does the thought of rejection and persecution make me apprehensive but, so does the feeling of not being worthy. Nobody knows more clearly than oneself all of the sinful and reproachable things that they've done yet to still have God look at you and say "<span style="font-style: italic;">You are the one that I have chosen</span>" is beyond comprehension.<br /><br />Paul says it like this "<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">For I am the least of the apostles, that am not meet to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">But by the grace of God I am what I am, and HIS grace which was bestowed upon me was not in vain...<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">I Corinthians 15:9-10</span></span>"<br /><br />My spirit was burdened this evening with the thought of how passive we have become as believers. We have become passive in regards to Gods standards. We have brushed aside many fundamental Biblical principles by labeling them "Old Testament Legalism". We have strayed so far from the will of God that we have the audacity to scowl at God's word whenever it infringes on our acceptable status quo.<br /><br />For instance, why do some "Christian" women become defensive when the word submission is spoken aloud? Is this not a biblical principle found all throughout scripture?<br /><br />And why do some "Christians" give you the death stare at the mention of Halloween being a holiday that does not glorify God. I've had some "Christians" try to convince me of how they are not celebrating Halloween but, that they are celebrating "All Hallows Day" or "All Holy Day". Nothing I've seen in the way that "Christians" celebrate Halloween differs from the way in which unbelievers celebrate Halloween.<br /><br />What if an angel of the Lord came down from Heaven and told you that the reverencing of the "day of the dead" is repulsive to God, would your family fore go Halloween this October?<br /><br />We, as believers, have formed some habits over the years which I will refer to as "worldly customs". These habits have become so normal for us that we are not even disturbed by there existence.<br /><br />I flipped through the channels this evening and landed on the J.K. Rowling's special. The reporter stated that the first three Harry Potter movies grossed somewhere around 4 billion dollars. I silently wondered how many "Christian" dollars were included in that number.<br /><br />The reporter then went on talk about the hours of research that went into choosing the spells, sorcery and witchcraft material included in the books and movies. I hear some "Christians" talk of how they must get the latest book for their children and I wonder if they've overlooked the fundamental biblical principle that says:<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"></span><blockquote><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">"When thou art come into the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee, thou shalt not learn to do after the abominations of those nations.There shall not be found am long you any one that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, or that useth divination, or an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch. Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer". <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"></span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Deuteronomy 18:9-11</span></span> (KJV)<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">"When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you, do not learn to imitate the detestable ways of the nations there. Let no one be found among you who sacrifices his son or daughter in a fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead".</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> Deuteronomy 18:9-11</span></span> (NIV)</blockquote><br /><br />We must get past the lure of worldly pleasures and get back to the "Good Works" of God. <span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">"Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Idolatry, <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">witchcraft</span>, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies...of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God</span>." </span>Galatians 5:19-20(KJV)<br /><br />We are in a dangerous place as believers when we read the word of God and not be compelled to conform to it. This is an indication that we have accepted the ways of the world as normal. Romans 12:2 "<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that <span style="font-weight: bold;">good</span>, and <span style="font-weight: bold;">acceptable</span>, and <span style="font-weight: bold;">perfect, will of God</span>.</span>"<br /><br />That good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God is what I desire, so much so that I am willing to die for it <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=i%20cor%2015:31;&version=9;">I Cor 15:31</a>. I mean that both <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=i%20cor%2015:44;&version=9;">physically and spiritually</a>. I pray that I don't have to experience a physical death for my faith however, I do understand that in order for me to grow and change into the image of Christ that <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=i%20cor%2015:36-38;&version=9;">I must die spiritually</a>.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=i%20cor%2015:56;&version=9;">If you are upset by what I have written and refuse to change</a>, don't shoot me, I'm just the messenger. The word of God is what it is. I will tell you that, I am not concerned with your hurt feelings. I am more concerned with your salvation.<br /><br />God has given us the power to be victorious over the sin in our lives. If you realize that there are some habits that you have picked up that do not glorify God, begin by telling HIM that you have messed up. Next, tell him that you want to do better and that you need HIS help. Finally, implement and accountability partner. It could be your spouse, a friend or family member. You will need to surround yourself with support and encouragement.<br /><br />This subject matter may be a touchy one for many believers and unbelievers alike. You may not all agree with what I have written however, this is my blog and if what I write is offensive to you in anyway feel free to disagree in the privacy of your own home.<br /><br />I am not open to any confrontational comments or debates. I will not participate in vain disputes over faith. Either you agree or you don't. I will on the contrary, address civilized questions and or comments.<br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"></span><blockquote><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">1 Corinthians 15:58</span> (KJV)<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-style: italic;">Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.</span></blockquote><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-style: italic;"></span>The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1234762245143771086.post-81277481595680492302009-07-16T19:15:00.000-07:002009-07-16T19:15:00.178-07:00Children...Mama's Helper'sWhen our children were younger I devoted countless hours to their care and comfort. I attended to their cries and was readily available to shower them with attention.<br /><br />As they grow older they learn to care for themselves more and more. My children range in age from 5-15 are able to operate the mechanics of our home short of the financial aspects.<br /><br />From the first time that I see my children demonstrate a desire to take responsibility for themselves and their surroundings, I've taken advantage of that desire.<br /><br />I have always raised my children as though I may not be around tomorrow.<br /><br />I cultivate a desire in my children to be responsible for their property and areas.<br /><br />I teach them how to make basic meals for them selves. The (2) younger children should know how to pour drinks, set a table setting and prepare a simple snack like crackers and peanut butter. They are taught to clean up after eating. The older children learn to prepare side items for meals and then the main courses.<br /><br />The benefit of allowing children to take responsibility for the day to day operation of their home life gives them a sense of responsibility. The best part is that it gives mom a reprieve from caring for the basic needs of the entire family.The Proverbs Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950651949803175572noreply@blogger.com2